📌 Childhood Bully Wanted Her To Play Violin At Her Wedding
Posted 10 September 2025 by: Admin
Talents that set you apart as a child can make you a target—but sometimes life offers a perfectly timed full-circle moment. Tiffany Mulder, now a celebrated violinist, experienced just that when her childhood bully came calling years later—with an audacious wedding request.
As a middle-schooler, Tiffany’s passion for the violin often made her stand out in ways that weren’t always kind. One particular classmate mocked her relentlessly for being in the orchestra. The teasing left scars but also fueled Tiffany’s determination to excel. Fast-forward nearly two decades, and Tiffany had become an award-winning professional, recognized repeatedly by The Knot and WeddingWire for her exceptional performances at weddings and events.
So when a message popped up from that same bully—now a bride-to-be—Tiffany was stunned. The note was cheerful and entitled: “I’d love for you to play the violin at my ceremony. It would be such a wonderful gift! Plus, you could use the photos and videos for your portfolio—win-win.”
Tiffany’s Unflinching Reply
Rather than lash out, Tiffany chose honesty and grace. She reminded the bride that her services were valued at $2,500, a fee reflecting her nearly two decades in the wedding industry. “It’s quite bold,” she wrote, “to expect a $2,500 service as a gift—especially given how you treated me in middle school. I started my career at 12 and have been working professionally for 19 years.”
The bride balked, criticizing Tiffany’s rates and suggesting friendship as leverage for a discount. She even dangled a “special” date—October 3rd, Mean Girls Day—as a sentimental hook.
Tiffany held her ground, explaining she had a full life, supportive friends, and no space for negativity. The bride’s counteroffer of $1,000—less than half her rate—was politely declined. Half-teasing, Tiffany suggested the bride ask her guests to chip in five dollars each if she truly wanted live violin music.
In the end, Tiffany walked away with dignity, self-respect, and a dash of poetic justice. Her story is a reminder that success is the sweetest revenge, and that knowing your worth—especially to those who once doubted you—is its own triumph.










